What do I need to know before buying a Vibrator or Dildo?
Big, small, coloured or vibrating, there are a myriad of choices. As soon as you decide to buy a vibrator or dildo you can feel helpless in the face of a huge selection on the internet.
Questions and decisions. What should I buy? What material is best? What length and size should I choose? How loud is a Vibrator?
If you are new to vibrators and have no idea on direction of choice, here are a few key things to think about:
For beginners, start with either a finger, bullet, mini or external vibrator. About 70% of women need clitoral stimulation to orgasm and are unable to climax through just sex alone.
Bullets and finger vibes are smaller and focus directly on the clitoris whereas the bigger external vibrators mould with the bodies curves and directly touch the clitoris and vulva.
Type of Stimulation
Internal Stimulation
Internal vibrators and or dildos are much longer and easier to hold than external ones during insertion.
Internal & Clitoral stimulation
You can choose to stimulate both the G-Spot & Clitoral areas during insertion. Either at the same time or singularly.
Clitoral stimulation during sex
If clitoral stimulation during sex interests you, then Couples Vibrators or Vibrating Penis Rings are a great option
What should my Vibrator or Dildo be made of?
Vibrators or dildos come in soft or firm forms. With hard materials like glass or steel there are no problems with hazardous materials, but you must be careful when using in delicate areas, especially in couples play.
But if you prefer a soft substance then you must make sure the vibrator is made of medical grade silicone. Most people when buying their first vibrator choose a toy made of a soft material. All of our toys are made of medical grade silicone which has proven itself time and time again.
Power source: Battery or Rechargeable Vibrator
Vibrators or dildos come in battery or USB rechargeable choices. Rechargeable are protecting the environment, but you must remember to charge your toy fully before first use. Battery operated vibrators are ready to go as soon as the batteries are inserted.
Rule of thumb says most rechargeable vibrators have a stronger more powerful vibration than battery operated toys. The intensity of the vibrations is very subjective, so choosing a toy with multiple speeds is always the safest way to buy.
Most people choose rechargeable toysas you never have to worry about finding batteries at the most awkward of moments.Even though rechargeable units are more expensive, just think how much you will save on batteries.
Just remember convenience is key and green is sexy!
Whether you are a first-time buyer or an experienced user, here are some key points to consider:
Before purchasing a vibrator or dildo check the size specs and measure your fingers to get an idea of the size.
For couples’ sex, choosing a large vibrator is often not the best solution when it comes to your partner possibly feeling inferior.
If the vibrator makes you or your partner uncomfortable because its too big, then it’s not for you.
Consider the speeds and pulse patterns that you require. Do you like a steady pulse, extreme vibrations or do you like to mix it up.
Try using a more powerful vibrator for more intense stimulation. Or a pulsator which unlike a vibrator stimulates the back-and-forth movement of penetration.
Some vibrators are more versatile than others and can be used for anal, G-Spot or clitoral stimulation.
A soft exterior is preferable on vibrators just as a real-life erect penis is actually pretty soft, especially the head and upper region of the shaft.
A rigid shaft is best so as to balance out the soft and squishy exterior. A hard rigid core stabilises the shaft and gives the dildo the perfect amount of support.
For double penetration always use a flexible soft style vibrator or double ended dildo.
Realistic features on a dildo like veins, balls and the head of the penis, have a great psychological effect on the user.
Lastly, don’t forget to clean your new toy before and after use with the most essential sex accessory – a sex toy cleaner.